Saturday, March 1, 2014
Assumptions
This week we read and discussed "Black Men and Public Space" by Brent Staples. He discussed his own personal experiences with the common stereotype of the violent black man. In his situation, his "victims" reacted to his presence as if Staples was a felon just because of his skin color and choice of clothes. They assumed that he was a criminal even though they knew nothing about him. Even though some of us think we would never react like this, we make assumptions everyday. We assume that the jocks aren't smart. We assume that every student of Asian descent is a genius, or that every Native American is an unambitious alcoholic. Oftentimes, we make these assumptions without even thinking. These stereotypes become so ingrained in our heads that it comes automatic to look at someones outward appearance and assume all sorts of things without knowing anything about them. Sometimes these assumptions are correct and sometimes they are false. My personal opinion is that making assumptions is a shortcut, or an excuse to not getting to know someone on a deeper level than their appearance. So next time before you automatically assume something negative about someone, try to get to know the person well enough to make the assumption.
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I agree with your post. I often find myself guilty of making assumptions about people, and then I am surprised when I realize that my assumptions are wrong. In the end, these assumptions don't do any good for anyone. In the future, I'll try to get to know people before judging them, just as you suggest.
ReplyDeleteVery thought provoking. It is the sad truth that everyone makes assumptions of other people. It is a social axiom that within 10 seconds of meeting someone, one will already have made a judgment of that person. It is in human nature.
ReplyDeleteYou make some really good points about stereotypes. Even though people try not to judge, it is sometimes impossible. It becomes second nature to believe these stereotypes and it is hard to break free from them.
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